Your Guide to Being a Maid of Honor

Today, I’m here to dish out the inside scoop on how you can be the MVP of the bride’s big day (and every day leading up to it).

Being a Maid of Honor is a big deal. It’s like being the bride’s personal assistant, therapist, hype squad, and organizational ninja—all rolled into one. But don’t worry, I’ve got your back. Here’s everything you need to know to absolutely crush it.

Your Core Responsibilities

Let’s get the basics out of the way. Here’s what you absolutely need to handle:

1. Be the Bride’s Right-Hand Woman: You're the go-to. The calm in the chaos. Whether it’s dress fittings, emotional breakdowns, or last-minute seating chart drama, you're her rock.

2. Plan the Bachelorette Bash: This is your moment to shine. You don’t need to plan a weekend in Ibiza (though, if you do, please invite me), but you do need to create an unforgettable experience that suits her vibe—whether that’s wine tasting or a wild night out.

3. Host or Help with the Bridal Shower: Traditionally, you’ll work with the bride’s family or bridesmaids on this. Think: cute games, Pinterest-worthy decorations, and enough snacks to keep Aunt Linda happy.

4. Coordinate the Bridesmaids: Keep the group chat alive, herd the cats (aka the bridal party), and make sure everyone has their dresses, shoes, and instructions.

5. Hold the Bouquet & Fix the Dress: During the ceremony, you’ll take the bouquet, fluff the train, and subtly give the bride a reassuring smile that says, “You’ve got this.”

6. Give a Killer Toast: Write it from the heart. Make them laugh, make them cry—but don’t make it about you. And whatever you do, don’t wing it.

Being a Maid of Honor is a huge responsibility—but it’s also an incredible honor (hey, it’s in the name). The bride chose you because she trusts you, loves you, and knows you’ll be the one to help her laugh through the stress and soak in the joy.

So say yes to the spreadsheets, the late-night vent sessions, and the slightly awkward dress fittings—because at the end of the aisle, it’s not just about the wedding. It’s about your friendship, your support, and the memories you’ll create together.

Now go forth, lovely Maid of Honor. You’ve got this.