Sweet Ways to Honor Your Mom or Someone Special on Your Wedding Day

I've witnessed hundreds of “I do’s,” and I can confirm this: weddings aren’t just about two people getting married—they’re about all the love, support, and guiding hands that got you there in the first place. And for many of my couples, one of the most meaningful things they want to do is honor their mom, mother figure, or another incredibly special person on their wedding day.

If that sounds like you, grab a cup of coffee (or a mimosa—you’re planning a wedding, after all!) and let’s talk about some heartfelt, fun, and totally you ways to make that person feel celebrated.

1. Let Them Be Part of the Getting-Ready Magic

Not everyone wants a formal, over-the-top moment—and that’s okay! Sometimes the most meaningful thing you can do is invite your mom or that special person into the calm before the storm.

Ideas:

• A special champagne toast during hair and makeup

• A gift exchange moment (cue the happy tears)

• Having them help with a meaningful accessory—your veil, jewelry, or a family heirloom

I’ve watched these quiet moments become some of the most cherished memories of the whole day.

2. Wear or Carry Something That Reminds You of Them

This is one of my favorites because it can be as subtle or as bold as you’d like.

Think:

• A charm with their photo on your bouquet

• A piece of fabric from their wedding dress sewn into your gown

• Their handwriting embroidered inside your suit or dress

• Jewelry passed down through generations

It’s like having your person right there with you, even in the midst of all the chaos.

3. Give Them a Moment in the Ceremony

Ceremonies are rich with opportunities to honor someone special.

You could:

• Have them walk you partway down the aisle

• Include them in a unity ritual

• Ask them to read a poem, scripture, or personal message

• Reserve a special seat with a sign or flower if they’re no longer with you

Pro tip: If you want something extra personal, consider a short tribute written in your own words. Guests love a heartfelt surprise.

4. Dedicate a Song (And Let the DJ Announce It!)

If you’re not into traditional dances—or if you want an additional moment—dedicating a song during the reception is such a sweet touch.

You can:

• Do a mother–daughter or mother–son dance

• Invite them to dance with you for a short portion

• Simply dedicate a song and let the DJ shout them out (I’ve seen the crowd erupt more than once!)

Make sure the tissues are nearby. Trust me.

5. Incorporate Them Into Your Details

Your décor and design can absolutely tell your story—and theirs.

Ideas I’ve seen couples absolutely crush:

• Naming a signature cocktail after them

• Featuring their favorite flower in your arrangements

• Displaying a cherished photo at your welcome table

• Adding a line about them in your programs

These little touches make your day feel so personal and intentional.

6. Share a Private Moment Before the Ceremony

This one is for my couples who know emotions will run high and prefer something quiet.

Consider:

• A first look with your mom

• A handwritten letter exchange

• A quick walk, prayer, or hug before the whirlwind begins

These are the moments that slow the day down in the best way.

7. Honor Them Through Food or Tradition

Food is love—and incorporating someone’s favorite treat or family tradition can be such a lovely nod.

Think:

• A mini dessert inspired by their favorite sweet

• A family recipe served at cocktail hour

• A cultural or religious ritual that holds meaning for both of you

Your guests will appreciate the personalization, and your loved one will feel deeply celebrated.

8. Give a Toast in Their Honor

If you’re comfortable speaking, you can share a few words of gratitude during your reception. It doesn’t have to be long or formal—just genuine. I’ve seen moms absolutely beam during these moments.

There’s no wrong way to honor someone special on your wedding day. The most important thing is that it feels natural and authentic to who you are. Whether it’s a big surprise or a tiny, subtle detail, these gestures always add so much heart to a wedding day.

And remember—your wedding is not just a celebration of your love story, but of everyone who helped shape it. So go ahead, find a way to make your mom or that special person feel the love right back. 💕

If you ever need help brainstorming the perfect tribute, you know where to find me—I’ve got (way too many) ideas!